Monday, July 20, 2009

What is Love???


So..what really is love...1. It's an energy that binds all of mankind together in ways more complex than what meets the eye...like bee has love for honey,fly for flame,brain for knowledge,psyche for good music,female for her sibling,a male pengiun's perseverance..holding its egg at -70degs for several months!!...It's a passion that has governed all of us throughout our lives and yet we tend to ignore it through the narrow yet defining intricacies of ourSelves..searching for scapegoats to bounce out of a covalent bond with relative ease..not thinking of the IMPACT the decisions may cause to other beings...2. It is more or less an involuntary reflex that God has endowed upon all of living kind to understand the very basics and principles of life .. a feeling that breaks all barriers of human thinking which tend to take us in different directions.. Ambitious as every living being is made to be with differing grades of coloration...and by that I mean layers of complexity....biological and emotional...which define us as unique beings, as a species and individually..for ex. a human female won't eat its child out of hunger but a Tigress does...beacuse of the aggresive nature and the overpowering urge to live..and there lies the difference that has governed living kind for ages...the truth is...Love is a passion..and truly, its easier to be commited when you're passionate..We humans are unique in the sense that we have a balance...not the ecological one...(which is quite twisted case in our kind)...but a balance of mind and heart...of emotions and ambitions..of truth and farce...and what 's beautiful is that we have the tendency to choose...that most other species on this planet do not...because they are just part of an ecological system and "Survival, Sustenance and Reproduction" are the only strings that hold their love by virtue of nature...
Now,where does all this lead to..I mean one would say its easy to have thoughts and jotting them down...but Love means real pain,real sacrifice and real patience...and words may be set of alphabets that can alleviate the opposite but not enough to fill the vacuum of reality...but the truth is that is what defines you as an individual and tests you as an emotional human being..Patience is the key to any succesful relation and of giving the other person more importance than everything else that matters..of rising above petty fights and differences and undrestanding that what matters the most is the other person and not the juices and chemicals that lead us to the differences...once this is imbibed..Love can cross any barriers,any distractions and any test of time:)